Truth Cards
Names what's true when a big feeling is telling a different story.
“This will not last forever! All storms run out of rain.”
At home
Read one out loud in the middle of the storm — no explaining required.
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Confidence
Confidence isn't praise. It's a child patiently collecting evidence about who they are — and you noticing it out loud, especially on the days they can't see it themselves.
What helps
When they're doubting themselves
- Take up space on purpose: shoulders down, feet planted, arms wide like a sea star.
- Three slow breaths before the thing they're nervous about — not to fix the nerves, just to steady the body.
- Say the nerves out loud so they aren't secret: “I feel it too before something new.”
- Lower the stakes, not the goal. One try. That's all.
Building it over time
- Notice the courage, not the result — “You were nervous and you did it anyway.”
- Ask what they're proud of before you say what you're proud of.
- Keep a running list of things they can do now that they couldn't before.
- Use Milo's story: being different is the strength, not the problem.
Words you can borrow
You don't have to say the perfect thing. Your calm presence matters more than perfect words.
“You were nervous and you did it anyway.”
“What part are you proud of?”
“You don't have to be good at it yet.”
“I like who you are when you're trying.”
The cards that help here
Inside the Power Card Deck are four kinds of cards. These are the ones families reach for with this topic.
Remember cards
Reminders of who your child really is, underneath a hard day.
“There's nothing wrong with you. Different isn't a flaw — it's what makes you special.”
Power Plan cards
Space to name what makes them feel special, and one small step to grow it.
“What makes you feel happy, special, or different in a good way?”
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If you'd like something to hold onto
When you've worked through a hard moment together, these cards help continue the conversation — one card, one step, whenever your child needs it.
Remember Cards
Gives a child something steady to hold on to about who they are.
“You're still you. Even after what happened. Still worthy. Still magic.”
At home
Leave one on a pillow, in a lunchbox, or read it at bedtime.
Voice Cards
Gives them the words when speaking up feels impossible.
“Words to try when something doesn't feel okay.”
At home
Practise the line together before the moment it's needed.
Power Plan Cards
Turns a hard moment into one small, doable next step.
“One step you can take today — small counts.”
At home
Use it after the feeling settles, when the body is ready to think.
Release Cards
Moves the feeling out of the body through the hands.
“Draw the anger. Scratch, scribble, cover the whole space. Then tear it.”
At home
Hands-on and physical — drawing, tearing, folding, letting go.
Want to go deeper with creative tools?
Children often can't say what's wrong — but they can draw it, scribble it, fold it, or tear it up. Creative journaling gives feelings a place to go that doesn't depend on finding the right words.
A prompt to try today
"Draw what today felt like. You don't have to explain it — just put it on the page."