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Mindfulness & Regulation

Mindfulness here isn't sitting still with your eyes closed. It's a set of body-first practices — breath, movement, grounding — that help a child feel safe enough to think, and that work just as well for the grown-up in the room.

What helps

In the moment

  • Sea Star Breath: trace up an arm as you breathe in, down as you breathe out. Five arms, five breaths.
  • Bubble Breaths: blow the biggest bubble you can without popping it — it lengthens the exhale.
  • Octopus Arms: shake out eight imaginary arms to move the energy before trying to settle.
  • Into Your Shell: a self-hug and slow breathing, so a child can ask for space without a meltdown.

Practising when things are calm

  • Practise the breath when nobody is upset — that's how it becomes available later.
  • Name body clues together: hot face, fast heart, tight tummy.
  • Pick one anchor practice as your family's default and use the same words every time.
  • Let your child lead the breath sometimes. Teaching it makes it stick.

Words you can borrow

You don't have to say the perfect thing. Your calm presence matters more than perfect words.

“Let's do a sea star breath together.”

“Where do you feel that in your body?”

“I need a shell minute too.”

“Your body is doing its job. We can help it settle.”

The cards that help here

Inside the Power Card Deck are four kinds of cards. These are the ones families reach for with this topic.

Truth cards

Steady sentences to read while the body comes back down.

“This will not last forever! All storms run out of rain.”

Remember cards

Reminders that hold once the breathing has done its work.

“You're still you. Even after what happened. Still worthy. Still magic.”

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If you'd like something to hold onto

When you've worked through a hard moment together, these cards help continue the conversation — one card, one step, whenever your child needs it.

Truth Cards

Names what's true when a big feeling is telling a different story.

This will not last forever! All storms run out of rain.

At home

Read one out loud in the middle of the storm — no explaining required.

Remember Cards

Gives a child something steady to hold on to about who they are.

You're still you. Even after what happened. Still worthy. Still magic.

At home

Leave one on a pillow, in a lunchbox, or read it at bedtime.

Voice Cards

Gives them the words when speaking up feels impossible.

Words to try when something doesn't feel okay.

At home

Practise the line together before the moment it's needed.

Power Plan Cards

Turns a hard moment into one small, doable next step.

One step you can take today — small counts.

At home

Use it after the feeling settles, when the body is ready to think.

Release Cards

Moves the feeling out of the body through the hands.

Draw the anger. Scratch, scribble, cover the whole space. Then tear it.

At home

Hands-on and physical — drawing, tearing, folding, letting go.

Want to go deeper with creative tools?

Children often can't say what's wrong — but they can draw it, scribble it, fold it, or tear it up. Creative journaling gives feelings a place to go that doesn't depend on finding the right words.

A prompt to try today

"Draw what today felt like. You don't have to explain it — just put it on the page."